Tips and Tricks for Men – Buying the Right Dress Shoes
By: Paul Temcio
Having worked as a professional right out of college and for the past 25 years, I have purchased many dress shoes. Back in the 90’s I wore more slip on loafer style shoes with predominantly (pointy or square) toe. Today my style may be described as diverse. I have some ankle boot styles in muted green, burgundy and grey. I have classic lace up shoes in wing tips and smooth leather and in both black and various shades of brown. I have a favorite pair of oxford saddle shoes in white with brown that I call my old time Chicago “gangster” shoes. I even have a pair blue suede shoes! Choosing dress shoes is all about personal style.
1.) Buy real leather shoes. These will be very stiff at first because you have to break them in but real leather softens up and conforms to your foot. Real leather shoes look better but they are also a very good investment. Feaux leather doesn’t scuff, it tears, whereas leather gets scuffed and that can be buffed out to look as good as new. Real leather can be shined and polished to be eye catching and emphasize the color. You can not do this with fake leather shoes.
TIP: If you want to buy a pair of very trendy shoes it is fine to go cheaper. Shoes that will go out of style are not an investment and are not meant to be forever. I personally like unique and different shoes so I will spend less to go with the trends and enjoy the look while I can.
2.) Purchase from a reputable company. Remember, dress shoes should be viewed as an investment so save the extra money and buy from a company with a solid reputation. This helps you maintain the life of your shoes for many years. Some companies offer free or low cost repair services. Allen Edmunds will re-craft your worn shoes and make them good as new with packages as low as $50.
TIP: Don’t have the money and need the shoes right away? You can still buy good shoes through selling apps and sites that carry “name brands”. Resale or consignemnt shops are worth a look too. I have had a lot of luck at outlet stores because a good pair of dress shoes really never goes out of style, but they do get marked down to make room for new arrivals.
3.) Take care of your shoes. You have to be diligent about caring for your shoes so that they look professional. If you have a pair of shoes that you wear very often you should get them shined more often. When the leather gets scuffed or dull you will know it is time for a shine. You can do it at home yourself or take them to a professional for only $5 – $8 dollars. (Plus a couple of dollars for a tip). I have worn shoes that are many years old but have a new shine and people think that they are a new purchase.
TIP: Wear shoe covers in bad weather. I commute to Chicago for work and walk a lot in the city. During the winter months, snow and salt can wreck my shoes fast. Covers (rubber overshoes) are the only way to preserve your investment. If you do get salt or water on your shoes, wipe it off as soon as possible.
TIP: I keep a pair of brown and a pair of black dress shoes at work. When weather is really bad I will wear my snow boots and change at work. This also helps reduce everyday wear on the shoes while commuting through the city.
When buying dress shoes it is hard to go wrong. There are not feaux pas that professionals will notice (aside from a poorly made shoe). Buy what styles you think look good and the ones that feel the best for you. Try different brands and you might find that there is a brand that is a better fit for your foot than others.
TIP: When you are buying a new pair of shoes make sure that you have a belt that matches. You may have one at home in your collection or you may have to purchase one but they MUST match. If you have light and dark pairs of brown shoes for example, you have to have light and dark belts to go with them.
With my personal tips on how to buy dress shoes you should be confident about going out and making a good purchase. Whether you are just starting out in the professional business world or a seasoned veteran, these tips will help you buy and preserve dress shoes that will represent your style and class.
Corey | The Nostalgia Diaries
This is a really helpful guide. And I totally agree – a matching belt is a must!
Gayathri
I am sure this guide would prove very useful when buying shoes for men. Many men I know would be better for reading this post!
Ananda
i am going to show this to my hubby! he LOVES buying shoes, i always joke if he were a girl, he will need a garage size closet hehe!!
Janine Thomas
Having a belt to match the shoes is a great tip! It just makes the outfit look so much better.
sonali jain
A really helpful guide. And I totally agree – a matching belt is a must! Thanks for sharing!
Kim
Such wonderful tips for shopping for men dress shoes. It is always smart to purchase from a reputable brand so you know it is made to last.
Brandi Crawford
These are really great tips! I will definitely share and pass these along.
David Elliott
Buying from a reputable company and taking care of your shoes are essential if you want to maintain your shoes. These are really great tips.
Jessica Bradshaw
Men’s dress shoes can be very tricky. These are great tips! My husband is obsessed with dress shoes, even though he works from home. haha. I will have to share.
Carol Cassara
These are great tips! It’s really important to find the right one, that’s also comfortable and not just stylish. Dress shoes look great on men when styled right!
The Southern Thing
These are great tips. I’ll have to pass this along to my husband for when he needs a new pair!
Clarie
Good pair of shoes add a charm to the dressing of men. Very informative blog
jtemcio
Thanks Claire. We are going shopping at a new mall today to get me a new pair of black dress shoes!
jtemcio
I often work with new hires that are young and do not know about wearing good shoes. We have to let them know what is expected in our industry and with certain clients.
Kyle Wayne
I like that you mention purchasing from a reputable company. My brother is looking to buy pin-up shoes for sale but needs tips. I’ll be sure to talk to him about buying from a reputable company.